A little more design in my days

As I wrote about in my last post, I was lax in my routines for the past several months. So I made a vow to myself to be more mindful …

Do you remember going back to school in September, and your mom or dad (or teacher) would tell you that you had to just buckle down and do what needed to be done (typically homework or piano practice)? I recall being royally ticked when my parents told me to do something, but I did it anyway – stomping my feet the whole way. So I’ve been talking to myself like a parent. Just put the dishes in the dishwasher and clean the kitchen before you go play. 

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I’ve never been particularly good at sticking to routines; the only one I keep is being 6 to 10 minutes late for work, every day, and it doesn’t matter whether the commute is 5 minutes or an hour.

Since we moved I’ve struggled more than ever. I’ve missed sending birthday greetings, bill payments, volunteer assignments, and generally am flailing about.

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Take a breath

There’s a lot going on with the sale of our old house, and not all of it is good. I’ve got drafts of blog posts bemoaning all of the issues but I’m afraid to hit ‘post’ because they all focus on what is going wrong, and to say it ‘out loud’ would give too much credence to negative energy.

Plus I’m afraid attorneys may be involved at some point and I don’t want to come to regret something I’ve posted publicly. (See kids, you not only have to be careful of the pictures you post, you have to be careful of your own words!)

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Patriotic Weekend Round-Up ~ 4-Jul-16

Bonus holiday weekend for those of us who carry two passports! Friday was Canada Day. Yes, I know Canadians aren’t typified as flag-waving, fireworks blasting patriotic like Americans, but in our hearts, we’re absolutely fervent about our homeland. I always wear a maple leaf on July 1st and wish I was home – but I know that the party north of the border is nothing like the party in the lower 48 three days later.

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Some Life-Changing Magic

It’s Sunday afternoon and I have just completed a super successful clean out of my apparel. Yes – it is KonMari Method weekend! If you’re not familiar with Marie Kondo, check out my last post here. )

I know everyone wants pictures … so here are a couple of teasers. Read through the full post for my experiences, lessons learned, and photos of my drawers and closets at the end of the process. Read more

Success – and I found the Sudafed!

My goals were pretty modest this week – I just wanted to accomplish one small organizational task. My vanity. We live in an older house and I have a smallish vanity for my stuff – three drawers and the area under the sink, plus a medicine chest. I keep my every-day stuff in this vanity. We also have a guest bath with a double sized vanity and a linen closet  In that bath I keep all of our OTC medications, Costco sized refills,  travel stuff, including those countless free gift bags from Clinique and Lancome. For this week, I just focused on the one room.

Starting Point:

Monday night I set a timer for an hour and started going through the drawers. Anything that hadn’t been used for a year was thrown in the trash. That included the two Dior eyeshadow palettes (peacock and a variety of purples – and I’m a total neutral girl) that I was talked into by a saleswoman during one of Nordstrom’s makeover weeks. There were loads of partially used products and some foundations and powders that were clearly the wrong colour for me.

There was also a drawer of hair clips, barrettes, and ponytail holders from when I had long hair. The craziest find was an envelope with a lock of my hair from when I cut it, which was in Louisville in 2002, so I’ve been hauling around that lock of hair for 12 years! Now that I found it, I’ll put it on the bulletin board in my sewing room. Maybe it will be some kind of amulet for organization!

FullSizeRender The digging and sorting under the sink resulted in a plastic shoebox filled with brand new toothbrushes, floss, paste, proxy brushes and other dental tools. I have a cleaning every 3 months and my hygienists tend to be generous with the graft … apparently I’m not using everything they gives me.

I also found three boxes of Sudafed and about 10 boxes of Strepcils (the best sore throat/cough lozenge in the world – and only in Canada or the UK). Seemed like I was constantly buying Sudafed and I was, it was just falling into a black hole!

When the timer went off after 60 minutes I had two shopping bags full of makeup, hair accessories, hair extensions, empty medicine boxes, and many bottles of lotions and potions that promised miracles. In all honesty, I did pull out a clip in hair bun that cost me $49 and I’ve never worn it. I just couldn’t give it up.

Why did I set the timer for an hour? I tend to get overly involved in little projects then at bedtime find myself half finished with a huge mess surrounding me. With a one hour time limit I had time to tidy up and place the discards in the rubbish bin.

No miracles, but I am really happy with this little task. There is a place for everything and everything is in its place. I also had yet another demonstration of how much money I waste on unnecessary items. I tend to shop for makeup and lotions when I am unhappy with my weight, figuring that if my hair, skin and makeup are immaculate, no one will notice the extra 30 pounds. (I actually bought this Bliss lotion called Fat Girl Skinny. You know what P.T. Barnum said about people like me!) I suspect I’ll not be shopping at Ulta or Sephora anytime soon. Now what to do with that Birchbox subscription …

One good thing has already come out of this. A coworkers approached me with a hard sell on some MLM marketing scheme for face lotion that is guaranteed to make you look 20 years young. Sorry, Lynn … I’m not buying anything!

Have you decluttered areas in your home or office? Do you have any great tips or experiences you could pass along to me as I start this year-long project?